Matching an auspicious baby name compatible with parents make no sense. We are trying to find the best name to suit baby’s bazi profile not parents.The criteria to get an auspicious name is already challenging. Having it to match parents bazi makes it nearly impossible. But this is not what i can’t wrap around with. It is the rationale behind. Is the child’s name? why and what does it got to do with parents birth profile improvement.
Colour code: red-fire, yellow-earth, blue-water, white-metal and green-wood
Why matching auspicious name to parents does not make sense
Day master Ding Fire. Born in summer season 羊刃格. Excessive fire presence is found in year/month/time root. In order to improve the child’s life, his birth configuration is desperately in need of “water” 用神 and “metal” 喜神 element. This will tip the scale of intense fire found. Thus having a “water” name will be good.
Some examples of “water” element Chinese characters particularly those with 水部首”氵” are beneficial and meaningful
治 沅 汪 河 泳 亨 沸 倍 候 洁 傅 冰 况 冷 凊 水 永 汉 江 池 沾 津
or “metal” element Chinese characters with “钅” 部首
钟 铭 仁 锡 宣 铨 悦 成 金 宗 任 众 伸 佐 俞 信 修 先 兑 入 刚 创 双 商 善
Let’s look at both parents birth configuration. Dad’s profile below.
Dad is a Yi Wood born in autumn. 壬水 appears on month and supported by combo of 申子 (半合水局). Birth structure 正印格 Direct Input. He will enjoy a better life if Earth element is present. Wood requires sunshine to grow – fire element. So dad ‘s favourable elements are earth and fire elements.
Mum birth profile below.
Geng Metal born in late winter. She is well supported by month, day and time. The result is a very strong metal person and her strucutre is cold. Her bazi favourable elements are water, wood and fire ( 调候 mediating element to counter coldness)
Birth structure Conflict between child and parent
Let’s look at the numerous conflicts between child and both parents
子午冲 Child year root Vs Dad year root.
丑午害 Child year root Vs Mum month root.
巳亥冲 Child month root clashes with dad’s day root.
寅申冲 Child time root clashes with dad’s month root and Mum’s day & time root.
The list goes on. Now the contradiction. Child needs water and metal which is fortunate because both parents are rich in these 2 elements. So do we select an auspicious that is lucky for parents i.e. fire element or lucky for the child water element?
It is common sense to suit the child because this is his name not parents. If parents need improvement they too can edit their name into a strong fire balance. If other masters (not sure who) recommends based on parents “compatibility” (not sure how) then the child will lead a miserable life. Look at it from practical perspective if the child is sick, who gets worried? Parents of course.