Fate or Destiny

Birth Destiny or Fate can it be change?

Over the years most clients would ask me this question when they realised that life isn’t great for them. “Can i change my fate? or Destiny?”

The answer is actually “yes” and “no”.

“Yes” through education, skill, experience one could adopt a positive mindset thereby changing one’s perspective, making the right choices/decision thereby making a positive action/decision that will benefit your life. Most importantly take “action” to do something about it. One can also use feng shui “to enhance & supplement”.

“No” because certain generic traits, inclinations is fixed by your Bazi Birth Structure and influenced by “10-years luck pillar” like “DNA” is fixed. For e.g. your height is fixed, blood type when u are born.

The good news is by understanding one’s bazi profile, one is conscious about your own character, skill-set, talents/hidden potential thereby choosing and acting on a wiser career or business choice.

Let’s assume Mr. A DOES NOT believed in birth profile analysis, fate or destiny. He only believed in himself doing the hard work, education, positive mental attitude, networking and ultimately through  sheer perseverance to reach his goals. On the other hand if one is not enlightened about his birth structure or his 10-year luck pillar he maybe heading the “wrong direction” or doing things that are not his “strengths” or “not in the right industry”. However he “may” still reach his goals perhaps a longer time and more effort.

On the other extreme Mr. B who believed in bazi reading and fate. He consult plenty of Bazi Masters to guide him. All may or may not give him the right advice and interpretations. This will end up “bad” if he is not given the proper advice thereby letting “fate” to dictate his life! So the problem is  whenever something bad happen, he would not look inwards (himself first) BUT BLAME it on his birth profile or luck or feng shui.  This kind of “obsession” and submission to FATE or DESTINY is even worse than Mr A.

Make the Best out of your Birth Profile 

The concept of “birth reading” is to know who “your really are” and make necessary adjustments/expectations and follow-through certain course of actions or directions. So the idea of Bazi reading is to understand “what is the best course of action”. The “Change” in your life can ONLY HAPPEN by your own effort. Nobody can help you with that! My job is merely to guide and show you what you are good at and let you know the factors  that is affecting your life journey towards your goal.  Take for example you are the “innovative/visionary/big ideas” type (if you have not realised it) then you needed someone to materialize like Steve Jobs from Apple. Your fate or destiny CANNOT be changed by bazi masters. If the master can change your destiny he is “God-like” already!

The first step is to acknowledge your own shortcomings than live in “self-denial” and blame circumstances. These shortcomings may take the form of insufficient education/knowledge/information not necessary your Bazi weaknesses.  The next step is to understand your luck in the future, so you will at least know “when to call, to raise or hold ’em, when to fold ’em and when to walk away” Please allow me to illustrate one real-life example:

Birth profile not suited for business

One of my client, a successful professional lady working for a multinational corporation invested her extra cash in a Japanese franchise business run by her partner. Her business was losing money for more than one year so she invited me to do restaurant feng shui. After doing the necessaries i cross examine her birth profile and asked her an “innocent question” why did you start this business? She answered “to help my partner”. i asked “do you have any interest in this venture”? She answered in one candid word “No”. She confirmed my reading of her birth chart. She is 正官格 – a “working professional” …not compatible to be an entrepreneur. Characteristics of her birth structure shows she is risk-averse, systematic, capable manager…and so forth. She will do well in the Corporate world but not an entrepreneur. i told her once she can recover her losses do consider closing the business. After 3 years i completely forgot about this consultation,  she contacted me for lunch and told me that she was promoted to regional director which definitely earn more than her franchise business. The beauty of bazi reading is to be aware and take the right actions.

This Chinese wisdom summarize it all:

命由天定,birth profile is granted by God (heaven) 运由己造,create your own-luck 预知运势, recognize your luck trend/forecast  积极面对, face it positively  改善自身,  improve oneself  提升生活 thereby improving your life!

Please allow me to share this “Luck happens when preparation meets opportunity” Lucky people generate their own good fortune via four basic principles. They consistently horn their craft by creating and noticing opportunities, make decisions objectively by focusing on their goals and intuition, create self-fulfilling prophesies through positive expectations, and adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.


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