These two words become interchangeable, or even synonymous. , but actually there is a difference in our perceptions. Fate implies things are predetermined, without control, a natural order in Universe which cannot be altered, no matter how hard we try. Destiny on the other hand has a more positive implications that we are given a choice to shape our future. Chinese Bazi or Birth reading does predict how our destiny or fate unfolds which is call the 10-years luck pillar.
Bazi reading does not transform life
Most enquiries i received think that bazi reading can turnaround a bad life to good. No such thing. Objective of Chinese birth reading is to raise self awareness, point you the right direction and things that you should do but not inducing “change” by itself.
Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results Einstein
How can we expect a different result in life by doing the same thing over and over again. By altering our activities or thoughts then we can anticipate a different outcome in our life. Try to do something different today.
Using Qi Men Dun Jia formula to improve daily luck
Our luck can only improve through our own efforts.
Bazi or feng shui equip you with the opportunities but you have to put in effort to rewrite your own destiny. By way of example, one of my client needed wood element. i recommended him to grow plants in a certain area to improve his career. He complained to me after 1 month the plants died. You see the problem here is he did not put in enough effort, thought or desire to make it work. One of the solutions can be you rotate the plants weekly to get sunlight or other means to fix it.
What i am trying to bring across is that one should put in effort to try and thing of various ways to make it work. You can’t expect luck to knock at your door if you are not trying enough. i dare say my feng shui consultation work best for those who follow and work around the problem instead of editing out of convenience or complain.
Law of Positive Attractions
The law of positive attractions state that there are no lazy people, just people without focus and specific goals. Bazi reading tell us who we are and what goals to pursue. Map out our future, telling us what we should do and not do.
For desperate cases, I advised my clients to use qi men dun jia formula to improve their luck. I recommended him to spend at least 30 mins to visualize his goals at his best calculated location. This was done when house feng shui is poor and both bazi and luck are bad.
Luck requires focus, discipline, effort and persistence. We need to sacrifice and step out of comfort zone. It may also involves tweaking our personality or characteristics. i admit it is easier said than done but desperate times call for desperate measures IF we really wanted enough to change our luck!
How and why bazi reading can help you
In order to help you to understand better, here is a real-life case.
A Japanese restaurateur invited me to do feng shui. Her business was losing money for more than a year. After doing the feng shui remedies i analyse her birth profile and found out that she is not suited to do her own business. As usual to verify i asked her. She told me she got no interest in doing business and this is to help her partner (boyfriend). She confirmed my birth chart reading. Her bazi reveals that she is a “working professional”, not suited as an entrepreneur. Her birth traits are risk-averse, systematic, good in management, hardworking and goal-getter. She will do well in the Corporate world. i advised her that once she recovered her losses, consider closing the business.
After 3 years, she contacted me for lunch and told me that she was promoted as regional director. The beauty of bazi reading is awareness and taking the right course of action.
Luck happens when preparation meets opportunity
This Chinese wisdom summarize it all:
命由天定，birth right is granted by God (heaven) 运由己造，create your own-luck/destiny 预知运势, recognize your luck directions 积极面对, face it positively 改善自身, improve oneself 提升生活 thereby advance your life！
Lucky people generate their own good fortune via four basic principles. They consistently horn their craft by creating and noticing opportunities, make decisions objectively by focusing on their goals and intuition, create self-fulfilling prophesies through positive expectations, and adopt a resilient attitude that transforms bad luck into good.