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Human personality is complex to say the least. Why understanding our own personality is so important you may ask? The reason is personality is a set of traits that influences us on our interaction with other people and how we act towards our environment. Here “environment” not only includes the physical environment that we live in – home feng shui or the place we work in – office feng shui but also how we respond to life situations and uncertainties. It is not difficult to respond when life is smooth-sailing but take tons of positive attitude, determination, discipline and perseverance if we are sailing against the current! Which makes understanding our personality so important.
Thousands of clients in Singapore who have consulted me probably know that i emphasize a lot on personality and attitude response to circumstances. You see after so many years doing feng shui consultations and individual bazi analysis in Singapore, one undeniable fact remain unchanged is that people look to you for “solutions” to improve their life be it marriage, career, wealth, health, love relationships and many others.
Yes home feng shui helps!
Yes office feng shui helps!
Putting Feng Shui in the Right perspective
But most important you must be willing to help yourself especially so during dark times! You see luck can be improved through all the above but not “transform” from misfortune into “fortune” OR from “poor” to “rich” OR “divorce” to “marriage”…Many clients who have consulted other feng shui masters in Singapore are “trick” into buying feng shui items that cost thousand of dollars hoping to “transform” their luck from “misfortune” to “fortune”…it is their moments of weakness and hopes in desperation that fall prey to these tactics.
Let’s take one example that a lot of my female clients love to ask, to save a broken marriage. i am sure you noticed that today’s divorce rates are on the rise especially in a developed economy like Singapore. If you can recall during our “grandfather or grandmother” time, the word “divorce” is little heard off or even scorn at and to add on to this irony, some of the marriage partners did not even see each other before marriage! Then why there are so little divorce during those days? what change? personality? societal values? environment? i believe you are smart enough to understand what i am getting at.
You see our society has become less forgiving, less empathy and less tolerant. You may wonder how does all these got to do with what i am doing i.e. feng shui, bazi, auspicious name, C-birth etc. The truth is it does relate. Again let’s use the same example, clients look to you for help in their marriage, so first you have to examine your own personality traits? are you tolerant to each other? have you done everything humanly possible? Then i will look into your birth configuration objectively…follow by feng shui audit to see where are the problem areas. Identifying the problem is the first step towards a solution isn’t it? In other words what i am saying is don’t every single little trivial thing that happen in your life blame bad feng shui or bad birth profile.
Your business does not do well. Is it feng shui ? or the lack of marketing finesse? or your products or services that you offer is no longer in demand e.g. video renting, books, printed words…or the more relevant question is are you suited to do your own business? Please allow me to share with you one enterprising female client of mine who started her own business but failing. After helping her to improve her business through feng shui, i candidly told her that she is not suited to do her own business and to my surprise she admitted that she think so too. I checked her bazi configuration, she is better employed as a professional to work for a big corporation and continue to work as long as she live than even switching jobs. Again her replied was she did well in a Bank and enjoys good promotions over the years. She started her own business because of her 10-years luck pillar change which influences her to make the bad decision of starting on her own. Yes she may be highly skilled to do that business but she do not have the “risk-taking” nature and other qualities of an entrepreneur. One thing for sure is best for a person who holds a high self-esteem of themselves not to go into doing own specialise service business. Why? One can’t accept customers criticism of the service that one offer. After you have done all that soul searching about your own personality traits than we can start exploring avenues like feng shui and birth luck enhancements.